The Imperfect Perfectionist

If you're anything like me, you like things done right, on time and under budget. I can still hear my dearly departed father-in-law saying "well, ok, Ms. Engineer" as I attempted to get Thanksgiving dinner in perfect order. Operating in excellence is something to be proud of and something that's needed in our workplaces, families, and communities. But as I grew as a servant leader and as a mom, I came to appreciate the oxymoron of being an imperfect perfectionist. I [...]

By |2021-09-27T09:50:06-05:00June 12th, 2017|Leading|0 Comments

Which Part Are You? DISC Styles Simplified

We know that we are all part of an eco-system – whether that is an organization, a family, a team or community. We all have a role to play in a bigger organism. But do you know your role? And do you truly value it? Do those around you know it and value it? There are lots of different ways we can categorize ourselves (ethnicity, gender, personality, gifts, talents), but one of the most useful is our behavior style. [...]

By |2021-10-20T20:22:28-05:00May 10th, 2017|Leading|0 Comments

Are You Part of the Solution?

Growing up, my aunt would ask my cousins and me "Are you part of the problem, or are you part of the solution?" Have you ever been asked this question? Even as a child, I knew that if the answer to this wasn't "SOLUTION", then I was in trouble. We all knew what was next: the statement of the problem and how WE could solve it. This method of questioning was a long-standing family secret (and my aunt will tell [...]

By |2020-08-07T17:28:16-05:00April 3rd, 2017|Leading, Loving|0 Comments

When to Communicate from the Heart

We’ve learned that effective communication should come from the heart, and I wholeheartedly believe that (no pun intended). When trying to motivate, inspire or even just relay a simple message, speaking with compassion is usually the best way to go. I still remember how profound it was when I heard a conference speaker say that our EQ (Emotional Intelligence Quotient) is just as important as our IQ (Intelligence Quotient), and some thought leaders say it’s even more important.  It wasn’t [...]

By |2020-08-07T19:04:36-05:00February 9th, 2017|Leading, Loving|0 Comments

Do a new thing! 3 Questions for making lasting change

Ahh, the new year. For my family and me, New Year’s Day is a time to enjoy family and black-eyed peas. It marks the end of the holidays and all the celebratory eating that seems to come with it, and it marks the beginning of new challenges. Over the Christmas/Winter break, I tend to rest, read, binge watch, and spend time with extended family. (there's nothing like a game of Taboo to get the blood flowing!) Then, I end the [...]

By |2020-08-07T17:39:24-05:00January 16th, 2017|Leading, Lifting|0 Comments

What Compassionate Leaders Know About the Holiday Season

The end of the year is upon us, temperatures have dropped, stores are filling up and so are our schedules. People are focused on closing out projects, wrapping up obligations and meeting the added demands of holiday stress. To maximize the potential of the people in our charge, compassionate leaders need to consider a few points while navigating their teams through this season: Make room for extra Life I always tell my project management students and clients to “make room [...]

By |2020-08-07T17:47:46-05:00December 13th, 2016|Leading|0 Comments

Welcome to The Ms. Engineer Way website and blog!

Whether you've heard me speak, read one of my books, or attended one of my workshops, here you'll find ways to stay connected and keep growing. I am passionate about helping people live (and work) with passion, purpose, and perseverance. Since most people spend the majority of their waking hours at work, I like to start there! If you do what you love, you’ll never work a day in your life. All that passion stuff sounds great in a perfect [...]

By |2021-09-27T09:43:34-05:00April 13th, 2010|Leading|0 Comments
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